Anonymous said: Is it bad to bring up things from the past (a year ago) that never really got discussed/confronted...? I'm still kind of angry at the person, but I've always just pushed the thought of bringing it up away for later, until now, and I feel the need to confront them about it... It might not turn out pretty or well, but it could maybe make things better between the two of us... I don't really know what to do. Advice?
Hello! I most certainly believe that it is okay to confront these things. Especially if it’s a year later and it’s bothering you. It’ll help you get it off your chest, and even if things don’t work out for you two, you helped yourself and that’s all that matters.
So go for it. I hope everything goes well! We’ll keep our fingers crossed. :)
heyy-there-its-me said: Do you normally get a lot of asks?
We don’t, not anymore!
If you are in need of advice feel free to send in some messages, I am online and probably will be for most of the night. I also check all of my asks throughout the day.
Because one of you is bound to be named Will or have a nice hat :)
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So many notes. Hope this has helped some of you.
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Ya well I can’t blame them for climbing that
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7/11 breathing. A skill to use for anxiety. It’s recommended to do it for 10-15 minutes. Like any other skill it does require a lot of practice. I advice that you practice it when you are feeling calm so you are ready in a time of need. If you lose count, which is easily done, simply start again until you do 15 minutes. It will also help with distraction even if you don’t get it right the first hundred times.
Breathing out longer than you breathe in actually activates your parasympathetic nervous system!
Anxiety is your sympathetic nervous system (“fight or flight”) setting off all the alarms, while breathing like this will set the parasympathetic system (“rest and digest”) into action shutting off the alarms and settling your nerves.
Other things that help: laughing, checking out what’s going on around you (moving head and eyes to orient to your surroundings), getting curious about something.
Take care, be safe.
Please use this, guys, it can really help calm you while being triggered and when you’re in a stressful environment.
Anonymous said: I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm really scared and have absolutely no idea what to do... I'm already 3 months along and I just don't think I can do this, but I don't want to terminate. I'm also pretty young (19), so I'm just... I don't know. I'm scared.
Hi! Lindsey here. I understand how scared you must be. What I would do is sit down and talk to the father if he’s still in the picture and tell your family. Now I’m prochoice but unfortunately if you did want an abortion they most likely won’t do it unless you get 2 letters from doctors explaining a medical reason as to why you need to abort. What I would consider if you’re young and don’t want the baby start looking for families to adopt. it’s crazy the amount of people who can’t have kids on their own. that way if you find a loving family who can provide for your baby then it should take a little bit of stress of. I know it’s scary and I’m so sorry you’re in this situation. but if you were to find a family to adopt the baby sometimes people agree to open adoptions which is when you can still see the baby and meet them whenever they’re ready it also means that if they want to find you they can. Now I’m sure at 19 you’re either working a job or you’re in university. Now if you think you can provide for the baby then keep it but if you still have things you need to do whether it be finish a college degree or get your feet on the ground in a stable job then I would give it up for adoption and if you really want to know about the baby growing up ask for an open adoption or ask if the adoptive parents can send you pictures and such of the child growing up. IDK if I helped any but my best friend just had a baby and she loves it to death and she has come from a reallly hard life but the baby turned it around and she’s living with the father and is very stable now. she was very scared at first but now she says that it’s the best thing that has ever happened to her and she’s actually still going to community college in the fall :) If you need to talk to anyone you can message here again or message my personal blog at lovelaughlivehappy.tumblr.com and I would be glad to talk to you and help in any way I can :)
Anonymous said: I was forced into having sex with my ex bf. I can't tell my bf as he will hurt him.
Hi there! I think your bf should know. Secrets like that shouldn’t be kept. Just approach it really carefully. I’ve been in this situation before and yes my bf was really mad at the guy who did it to me but he managed to calm down enough to not do anything. Just tell him that you have something to tell him but he needs to stay calm and you don’t want anything bad to happen.