Anonymous said: I just found out I'm pregnant. I'm really scared and have absolutely no idea what to do... I'm already 3 months along and I just don't think I can do this, but I don't want to terminate. I'm also pretty young (19), so I'm just... I don't know. I'm scared.
Hi! Lindsey here. I understand how scared you must be. What I would do is sit down and talk to the father if he’s still in the picture and tell your family. Now I’m prochoice but unfortunately if you did want an abortion they most likely won’t do it unless you get 2 letters from doctors explaining a medical reason as to why you need to abort. What I would consider if you’re young and don’t want the baby start looking for families to adopt. it’s crazy the amount of people who can’t have kids on their own. that way if you find a loving family who can provide for your baby then it should take a little bit of stress of. I know it’s scary and I’m so sorry you’re in this situation. but if you were to find a family to adopt the baby sometimes people agree to open adoptions which is when you can still see the baby and meet them whenever they’re ready it also means that if they want to find you they can. Now I’m sure at 19 you’re either working a job or you’re in university. Now if you think you can provide for the baby then keep it but if you still have things you need to do whether it be finish a college degree or get your feet on the ground in a stable job then I would give it up for adoption and if you really want to know about the baby growing up ask for an open adoption or ask if the adoptive parents can send you pictures and such of the child growing up. IDK if I helped any but my best friend just had a baby and she loves it to death and she has come from a reallly hard life but the baby turned it around and she’s living with the father and is very stable now. she was very scared at first but now she says that it’s the best thing that has ever happened to her and she’s actually still going to community college in the fall :) If you need to talk to anyone you can message here again or message my personal blog at lovelaughlivehappy.tumblr.com and I would be glad to talk to you and help in any way I can :)
Anonymous said: I was forced into having sex with my ex bf. I can't tell my bf as he will hurt him.
Hi there! I think your bf should know. Secrets like that shouldn’t be kept. Just approach it really carefully. I’ve been in this situation before and yes my bf was really mad at the guy who did it to me but he managed to calm down enough to not do anything. Just tell him that you have something to tell him but he needs to stay calm and you don’t want anything bad to happen.
Anonymous said: I've been together with my boyfriend for almost three months now. He started feeling subpar not long ago, compared to everyone else. He never trusts me, nor believes my words. He thinks I prefer other guys over him. But I don't. I honestly love him with all my heart. And I've never thought about anyone else but him. But he doesn't believe me. He feels really bad. So bad that he feels like killing himself. I feel so guilty. What can I do? I always make things worse when I try to reassure him..
Thats a very difficult situation to be in. You should try and help him and tell him you love him that you will be there, just be you, show him you care, but don’t make everything about the suicidal thoughts, maybe go watch a movie or something as a distraction. If you get more worried that he is going to do something tell someone who can help, a parent, teacher, someone who can do something to make sure he doesn’t kill himself.
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